Understanding the Psychology of Positive Thinking and How It
Can Help YOU.
You may
have heard about positive thinking, but do not really know enough about it to know
exactly how it works. Positive thinking can provide many benefits in your life
such as improving your health, opportunities in life, the way you relate to
others and the way you see yourself.
The
psychology behind the power of positive thinking is that you are more apt to take
on life with a positive outlook and have more positive results than if you face
the world negatively. That does not mean that you should gloss over the obvious,
but it does mean that a bad circumstance can be made much brighter than viewing
them in a negative way.
Some
psychologists view positive thinking as how you explain what happens in your
life. If you have an optimistic attitude, you are more likely to explain away bad
things that happen by blaming something else for the circumstance. You are also
more apt to view a negative happening as outside the norm or a temporary
circumstance.
Abraham
Lincoln once commented, “Most folks are about as happy as they make up their
minds to be.” When you make up your mind to approach life’s challenges with a
positive attitude, you are not ignoring the bad stuff in the world, but it does
mean that you are attempting to see the best both in people and in
situations.
Positive
thinking and positive psychology are often thought to be the same, but they are
really not. With positive psychology, the focus is definitely on positive
thinking, but most psychologists tend to think it is more beneficial to think
realistically.
For
example, positive thinking might lead a person to take risks that he or she
should not, such as investing money in a business that is extremely risky or
thinking positively that you can swim across the lake without taking into
consideration the distance.
However,
it is clear that thinking more positively will ensure more positive outcomes in
your life. The best thing you can do is to pay attention to your self-talk and
realistically assess whether it is better to think that way – or
not.
As you
practice positive thinking, you will become more adept at culling out the positive
thoughts that are not realistic as opposed to the thoughts that can have a
positive impact on your life.
You are
in control and you CAN choose to change negative thinking into more positive
thinking. Try for a few days to stop every negative thought in its tracks, by
changing the thought into a more positive one, and see how that changes your
outlook. The more you do this, the better you will feel and it costs you
absolutely nothing!
With thanks to Maria McMahon cogni-fusion.com
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