Monday, 15 October 2018

Take The Ultimate Journey

There is a wisdom that resides within all of us that is divinely connected to all that exists. This inner wisdom knows our deepest desires and what it will take for us to live a life that is fully expressed. To be fully expressed means that we are living in sync with the purpose for which we were intended. It means that we are living fully, healthfully and happily in all aspects of work, play and self-care. To be fully expressed means that we are not compromising in order to merely exist.
Mere existence involves living habitually, on automatic pilot and not “choosing” how our life will be expressed. Choosing can only happen from a place of deep centredness and from complete awareness. To be fully centred and aware requires a spiritual practice that involves establishing a connection with our “inner observing self”. The observing self is that part of our true self that is able to discern habit from essence and to be truly in line with our higher purpose.
 It is only by looking inward that we can begin to “take charge” of our life and “choose” how we will spend every ounce of energy that we have.
Begin by honestly taking a look at your life. "Is this the life I choose to live, am I compromising or selling out on myself in order to have an existence or to just exist"? "Am I truly doing and being what I believe I have come to earth to be and accomplish"?  If there are ways that you answer no to these questions, then make a pact with yourself that requires you to institute a change daily. Sometimes it helps to share this new “intention” with someone else, a best friend, a spiritual adviser, or life coach.
Recognise that each time you place a new intention into existence, that all of the obstacles possible will present themselves in order to detour you from your path. This is the universe’s way of testing you to make sure that you really want to live authentically in each and every day. Do not give up! Hold fast to the new intention that will take you one step closer to the divine and true expression of who you truly are.
FEAR is our greatest obstacle. It tells us that we are not good enough, smart enough, pretty enough, fast enough It is vital that we look deeply into fear and realise that this is just a lower aspect of our self that is trying to keep us from our true purpose or course that is a divine birth right to all of us. I remember cartoons from my childhood that often depicted an angel on one shoulder and a little devil on the other. To me this cartoon is a reminder of the choice that is ever present to each one of us. Will we choose the lower side of the self, our personality the little devil, or will we choose the angel, the side of us that is fully aligned with the divine or higher purpose that enables us to live life fully expressed?
Dr. David Daniels reminds us that consciousness or awareness is never habitual but must be worked on. Habit is always habit and it is willing to reassert itself into our lives non stop.  Take time to look inside, establish the observing self, and find your true journey that will enable you to be fully expressed. Give yourself permission to choose a new course of action every day. Invite someone into your life that will help you stay accountable to yourself and the journey. It is so easy to talk yourself out of the path that is divinely yours. Stay true to a spiritual practice that will help you to reveal the true inner/outer path for your life.
 The purpose of life is to express your self fully in each and every moment, to be the divine creation that you were intended to be. Accept nothing less for your self. Recognise those “little devils” that convince you to just exist not live and just say NO to them.
 Blessings on your journey!
With thanks to Deborah Ooten

Monday, 24 September 2018

Learn To Handle The Rough With The Smooth

No matter how confident and strong you are, you will have to deal with rough times at some point in your life. Hope is not about who is strong and who is weak, it is easy to lose it without noticing it. Hope can either enable you to step forward or give up on your dreams. Sometimes we feel like there is no way out, but hope is always here regardless of the situation. People coping with depression will say that hope does not exist. If you are going through a rough time and think the same way, here is how to never lose hope and live a positive life no matter what.

There Is No Perfect Life
Perfection does not exist. Your life will never be perfect no matter how hard you try. Your life can be happy, miserable or boring, but not perfect. If you choose to live a happy life, hope will always be with you. Learn how to turn your failures and disappointment into success, cultivate positive thinking, and try to surround yourself with positive people. 

Have A Plan
Life without a plan is a hopeless life. You probably have many goals and dreams, but do you have an actual plan? Do you know what you should do each day to reach your goals? Your plan inspires you to work hard and never give up. It makes you more ambitious and assertive. It shows you the right direction and helps you be successful. If you do not have a plan yet, today is a good day to make it.

Cultivate Long Term Thinking
When you think in the long term, it is harder to lose hope. For instance, you have just got been paidand think what to buy. You can spend all money at once, or think in the long term and spend your cash when you really need to buy something. Thinking in the short term leads to nowhere, which is why you can lose hope and set wrong life goals. Cultivate long term thinking on a daily basis to live a brighter life.

Do Not Let Others Take You For Granted
When you feel like no one respects you, you lose hope and your life seems to be pointless. Your boss asks you to work overtime each day and you are afraid to say no because you love your job. Your partner tells you should change your plans today and you change them because you don’t want to upset him. Your friend asks you to do something for her and you spend the whole night doing that thing because you don’t have time to do it during the day. The problem is, you let people take you for granted. Learn how to say no when you don’t feel like doing something. People will respect you more than ever.

Find Someone Who Has A Similar Goal
If you can’t drop weight, develop healthy habits, break bad habits or reach any career goal, find someone who has a similar goal or dream as you. This way, you won’t let each other to lose hope and definitely achieve that goal. My neighbor and I have a similar goal – we both wanted to get fit till the summer. Every morning I knew that I had to wake up early to run, because she’s waiting for me. We accomplished our goal thanks to each other.

Get Out Of Your Rut Once A Week 
Being busy every single day is very popular these days, which is why so many people suffer from serious diseases. Your body and your mind need some rest. At least once a week forget about your tasks, projects, household chores, TV shows, social media and phone. Take a small trip to a less crowded place, where you’ll have an opportunity to spend some me time. If you live alone and you know no one will disturb you today, then relax at home. But again, switch off your laptop, phone and TV.
When a person loses hope, they lose their purpose in life and stop living a fulfilling life. Having a bad day isn’t the end of the world. Making a mistake isn’t a reason to give up. Stay strong and you will never lose your hope. What are your secrets of a happy life?
Sorry it has been a while!
With thanks to Catalina in Womenosophy 

Thursday, 16 August 2018

Spiritual Housekeeping

Have you ever experienced a time where everything seems to be going wrong and, you feel stuck and being blocked from moving forward? Well, it could be that you and your house need a spiritual cleanse. Would you like to know how to cleanse your house and body of bad vibes? There are many different tools and methods you can use, but here are a few ways that are sure to make your space sparkle. If you want to live life at the highest vibrations, learn how to remove negative energy from your home and body, and get ready to experience the ultimate in domestic bliss and tranquility. Taking a cue from the ancient traditions of indigenous cultures from around the world, it is time to trade in synthetic fragrances and petroleum based cleaners for our favorite space cleansing essentials, Sage, Frankincense, Copal, and of course, healing crystals.
But that is only scratching the surface. There are also powerful healing salts, the sacred Palo Santo Wood and much more. When you make energy cleansing a part of your daily wellness routine, the extra effort will be worth it, especially when you are radiating with light and love. Clearing and purifying your space also helps boost the healing energy of crystals, which act as energy amplifiers.
You do not have to be a Zen master to notice if the energy feels stagnant and stuck in your home. Simply take a moment to notice if you or your environment feels heavy. In the hectic pace of the modern world, it is not uncommon to come home from a long day at work feeling overwhelmed. Also, any time you or someone in your home has an argument, the bad energy often accumulates in different pockets of a room. The same goes for the healing process. If you or a loved one are fighting an illness, it is time for a quick space cleansing ritual.
We know what you are probably thinking. Here is yet another chore to add to your list of to-dos. But all it takes is 5 to 10 minutes once or twice a week to truly transform your life. A pure and cleansed environment is also vital for enhancing the healing energy of crystals. Before you bring crystals into your home, purify your space first so that it amplifies the energy that is already there.
Negative energy seeps into our space constantly so it is important to keep a positive flow throughout your environment with Sage house cleansing rituals. When your home is purified, it restores balance and harmony to your life, which is essential for giving you and your family a happy and healthy place for deep healing and rejuvenating the spirit. When you make energy cleansing a part of your everyday routine, it is the perfect remedy for easing the stress and anxiety that comes from the demands of modern living.

Cleansing Your House and Office
It all begins with your mindset. Imagine a white light around you and the rest of your space. Pure white is associated with protection and purity, and, is thought to be the true colour of the soul. Start by imagining this internal white light as coming from the centre of your body and radiating around your home, filling each room with pure white light. 
Use Incense. Burning sage is one of the easiest and quickest ways for getting rid of negative energy. Native Americans have considered Sage a sacred plant for thousands of years. This multi purpose plant was used for energy cleansing, ritual ceremonies, and healing. Today, medicine people continue to use Sage to help restore vitality and health to sick tribal members. It works by neutralising your energy field, a subtle yet powerful process that sharpens and enhances intuition.
Sage is powerful on its own, but adding Frankincense into the mix is excellent for chasing away bad frequencies. The earthy, woody smell of dried sage is not for everyone, which is why Frankincense makes a wonderful alternative. Nicknamed the “transformer,” its powerful, detoxifying and purifying energy gives off a sweet, honey like aroma that helps to shift negative energy. Also known as “liquid gold,” Frankincense is known to provide protection, elevate spiritual awareness, and ease feelings of stress and anxiety.
By incorporating these cleansing practices into your life once or twice a week you will be amazed at the results. With any cleansing ritual, it is important to be mindful of the present moment so that you can purify your space with a clear intention. 
First, open the doors and windows so that negative energy can have a place to escape. Pull up blinds and let in as much light as possible. In fact, it is ideal to carry out this cleansing ritual during the day, particularly when the sun is shining.
Sweep the entrances to your home and do a light dusting around the house. It might seem obvious, but when your home sparkles, your spirit is sure to follow.
Starting at the front door, light a Sage Stick and gently blow on it until a large amount of smoke billows up. Keep a heat resistant container handy to catch any fallen embers.
Walk clockwise around your home, making sure to smudge all corners, including closets. Use a feather to waft smoke all the way up to the ceilings. Do not worry about your house getting too smoky because it can easily escape out of the open doors and windows, taking the bad energy with it. Do not forget to sage the bathroom. As you smudge each room, say a special cleansing prayer or intention out loud, which will help amplify its cleansing powers.
Add Fresh Flowers, Flowers are a must have for any room in the house, because it shows that your home is a beautiful and special space, a sacred temple of love and happiness. After cleansing your environment, take a glass bowl, fill it up with water, and add your favourite flowers. Place it at the front door, on an altar, or on your kitchen table.
Sound.  A quiet environment is like a haunted house. It can quickly fill up with negative vibes, which is why sound can replace that energy with warm, feel good vibes. Stagnant energy often accumulates in corners, so we recommend that you go to each corner and clap your hands up and down or gently ring a bell. Another popular tradition is the singing bowl, which creates gentle healing vibrations that can be felt on a physical and spiritual level. Combining sounds with sage smoke is a powerful combo for breaking up stuck energy.
Salt the Corners of Each Room. Sea salt works like a vacuum by sucking up bad energy and expelling it with a powerful force. Sprinkle salt into the four corners of each room and let it sit for 48 hours. To boost the cleansing effects even more, grind up saffron and mix it into the salt. After 48 hours, sweep or vacuum the salt and flush it down the toilet.
Use Candles to Remove Negative Energy. White candles have been used for centuries to remove toxic vibes from a space. Using a cleansing candle containing the therapeutic oils of rosemary mixed with yellow and green wax makes its cleansing effects even more powerful. Whenever you feel stuck or overwhelmed by an abundance of negative energy, let its light, clean scent and gentle ambiance give you a renewed sense of inspiration and creativity. Try buying unscented tea lights and adding droplets of essential oils (that you mix, make or buy) to create a calming personalised aroma.
Shake out the house with the pots and pans. Some people think of this as a New Year's traditions. It supposedly chases away the ghosts of the previous year. But this practice is not just reserved for January the 1st. Banging the post and pans around the house shakes out the bad energy and moves it out 
Cleansing with Crystals. Now that your space is thoroughly cleansed, it is time for the fun part, healing crystals!
Amethyst. Ranging in color from dark purple to pale lilac, Amethyst brings an abundance of warm and buttery vibes into your home, which makes it an excellent addition to any room. It works as a natural filtration system that absorbs negativity and transforms it into vibrations of pure love and harmony.
Selenite. The crystal version of Sage, Selenite Healing Wands help to clear and purify your space, especially when you place it on windowsills. It works by blocking bad vibes that can seep into your house through the doors and windows. A must have for every spiritual warrior, Selenite fills your environment with radiance and purity.
Healing crystals are always absorbing and transmuting negative energy, so it is vital that you cleanse your crystals on a weekly basis. Smudge the stones with Sage smoke and say your intention for each crystal out loud. This practice will help to program your stones so that they are amplifying positive vibes and working at their highest potential. Another popular cleansing method involves putting them under the sunlight or moonlight for 12-24 hours, which works by recharging their energy with the dazzling light that comes from our miraculous universe.
Removing Negative Energy From Your Body 

When it comes to ridding the body of toxic energy, healthy eating is a good place to start but sometimes it takes more than organic salads and vitamins to tackle your inner demons. If you are feeling particularly heavy in the energy department, try these cleansing techniques and free yourself of bad thoughts that are holding you back from your true potential.
Forest Bathing. If you have got a case of the blues, it is time to get back to nature with forest bathing. Instead of walking the path in order to get from Point A to Point B, take your time to breathe in the incredible healing energy of the forest and its abundance of oxygen permeating the air. Bring along your favourite crystals, we recommend  Tree Agate, Agate and Aventurine and wander along the trail at your own pace, taking the time to notice the incredible miracle of life that surrounds you.
Conscious Breathing.  If you feel stressed or anxious, deep breathing is a simple and easy way to restore your mind, body, spirit to a place of peace and tranquility. Inhale positivity and exhale negativity. It is that easy.
Music. When it hits you, you feel no pain. That is the magic of music. Even after cleansing rituals, bad thoughts can still persist, so put them to rest with a collection of your favourite songs. Playing an instrument is also an excellent way to stay in the present moment because when you are concentrating on notes and chords, you do not have time for any negative thoughts to get in the way.
Dance in Your Living Room. Even if you have two left feet, play the dance music you love, turn up the volume, and dance like no one is watching. You will be amazed at how easy it is to shake off a case of the blues. Plus, it is cheaper than therapy and a lot more fun!
Purifying Bath. Water is incredibly healing on its own, so when you add the powerful cleansing and rejuvenating powers of Himalayan sea salt, it makes your bath even more restorative. Add 2-4 pieces of Himalayan salt rocks to your bath, a few drops of your favourite essential oils, and healing crystals like Amethyst, Aventurine, and Rose Quartz.
Stress Reducing Facial Grid. We might not realise it, but many of us hold tension in our faces. Release everyday stress and calm the mind with Fluorite, Amethyst, and Celestite, a crystal powerhouse of peaceful energies that work to relax the mind,body and spirit. Place the crystals on places where you feel tension, such as your forehead, and feel your face being renewed and rejuvenated. 
Now that you know how to cleanse your house with sage, healing crystals, and other sacred cleansing tools, it is time for all the dream crushers, energy vampires, and your own inner critic to get the heck out of your life because your spiritual transformation is just getting started.

Wednesday, 25 July 2018

Always Have An Open Mind

To have an open mind means to be willing to consider or receive new and different ideas. It means being flexible and adaptive to new experiences and ideas.
Cultivating an open mind is another valuable outcome of critical thinking and reasoning.
Now more than ever we live in a world that is constantly changing.
In order to keep up, we must be open to new experiences and new ways of looking at things. If we do not stay current we will miss out on the wonderful new technologies such as the Internet, cell phones, digital photography, ipods, etc. that are making our lives easier and more interesting every day.
People who are open minded are willing to change their views when presented with new facts and evidence. Those who are not, and are resistant to change will find life less rewarding and satisfying, not to mention dull.
If we limit ourselves to what we knew and were more comfortable with in the past, we will become more and more frustrated.
Society as a whole has become more liberal, and circumstances that were not acceptable years ago are accepted now.
If we choose to approach life in the same way day after day, as well as becoming bored and uninspired, we will reduce our intellectual aptitude.
If, on the other hand, we seek new ways of doing and looking at things, we will expand our intellectual capability, find life more exciting, and broaden our experiences.
Being open minded also helps us with problem solving. First it helps us look at more than one way to approach a problem; then we find more expansive, ways of solving it. When we give ourselves more options, better solutions are undoubtedly more available to us.
Ultimately, having an open mind helps us expand our horizons and be more diverse and interesting people.
People who are open minded:
Are more accepting of others and have fewer prejudices.
Are more optimistic and make the most of life.
Have less stress because they are more open to change 
Have better problem solving skills

Want to learn more, therefore are more interesting 


With thanks to Z Hereford https://www.essentiallifeskills.net/openmind.html
Sorry it has been a while!

Wednesday, 27 June 2018

Your Thoughts Determine The Quality Of Your Life

Did you know that we have over 60,000 thoughts every day and around 70% of these are the same thoughts as the day before?
How is your 'thought life' right now? Do you generally feel like you are in control of your life and have positive thoughts about yourself and the world around you? Or do you feel washed along by life and find that you beat yourself up with the messages you play over and over in your mind?
Whatever we Focus on Increases in our Lives 
This starts with our thoughts which are incredibly powerful. Peace Pilgrim said "If you realised how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought."
What we think about affects the sorts of things that we say. The things we think and say affect the sorts of things that we do. The things we say and do become our habits. Ultimately we determine our character by the sum of our habits, which sets the course for the path of our lives.
This is great news! We can take control of our thoughts and determine the way our life turns out. Sure, you may not be able to control the thoughts that spring up in your mind from time to time, however, you can choose whether you continue to entertain them.
Often we have held thoughts for so long, we are no longer aware of how much they do affect us.
It can be like a negative cassette tape that keeps playing over and over in our mind. "I am stupid sometimes, I will not ever make it, I am too unfit, I am not good enough, They will not like me" We need to take control and hit the eject button and replace these old worn out tapes with positive messages that we choose to listen to.
Here are practical steps to help improve your mental chatter:
Monitor your thoughts
Be aware of the external influences you allow in your life. You chose the sort of people you spend time with and how much they influence you. You also chose the messages you read in books and magazines, the music you listen to and TV that you watch. These are like the seeds that will start your train of thought. Weeds will never grow into beautiful flowers, so protect your mind by protecting the seeds you allow to be planted there.
Direct your thoughts 
Once you realise that you have the remote control right there in your hand you can take charge. Choose the thought channels that you want to tune in to. Decide which ones to turn the volume up and down on. Be prepared to simply turn some channels off. It is up to you!
Feed your thoughts
Think of ways to feed your mind with positive things. Choose some statements to replace the old messages with and affirm these to yourself on a regular basis. You can even look yourself in the eye in a mirror and tell yourself some new truths to replace the old lies. "I am capable, I can do this, It will work, I am strong and fit." Hint, always say these in the present tense. Your subconscious will most likely take a little time to come on board and agree with this new way of thinking, so do not worry if its immediate reaction is "yeah right", persevere with it. You will see results!
Picture your mind like a sponge.
If the sponge is sitting in a puddle of dirty water its just going to be full of dirty water.
Choose today what you will fill your mind up with and continue to do so.

With thanks to Laura Parsons